Real Love

What is real love?

I was in a "serious" relationship 4 5years. I shared so many memories (both good and bad) and pain with this person. Just off basic instinct and the fact that I never felt that way before...I called it love..or being in love I should say.

*Love is patent, Love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its on way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes in all things, hopes all things, endures all things*
1Cor 13:4-7

When ur going through all ur wrong and past relationships, u find urself considering some of the craziness things...LOVE!
Love is not time or years...
Love is not pain...
and Love is not lust!

Love is.... Well my love is... Forgetting the wrongs, rejoicing the rights and all the smiles he brings to my face. My love is not questionable. My love is heart warming. My love has the same heartbeat. My love is... thee unimaginable!

It's easy to call something love especially when u have never experienced the real thing. 4 that moment it sounds good. But its everything but that honestly.

Everyone makes mistakes, so there may b a time where ur mate may wrong u... but @ the end of the day its just that...A mistake. Something that is learned from and never done again. Something that makes the relationship stronger. And something ur able 2 forget and just move forward about!
Everybody wants love these days...so we imagine that this person we "think" we love is everything we want and dream of. But yet we still question our feelings. Love is taking a risk. Not jus solely off how u feel but how ur heart feels. This real love is a undeniable feeling and its a feeling u cnt jus walk away from!
When u find this real love... u find urself doing things u prolly would of never did b4 but its okay bc...Somehow, someway...ur HAPPY!

Once u find this love...everything else seems like a an act! Something u rehearsed, and finally memorized and was able 2 perform GREATLY! Real love is no perfomance... its not even thought of, or really understood...but when it reaches u, its LIFE CHANGING! Real love makes u want 2 b a better person, real love makes u love every1 and want every1 2 experience this love that u have! U c good in those u would of never saw good in!

*I never knew how much God loved me, until HE blessed me w/u*
I tell my best friend this all the time! bc its true!.... God saw all my wrongdoings and all the wrongs that came in and out of my life... And HE taught me how 2 b strong and how 2 LOVE myself above any and everything.. AND then u wanna know what HE said... HE said I was ready...

The message is simple... *we go through so many wrongs, so when the right ONE finds us... we know how 2 cherish and love them. LOVE THEM RIGHT!!*
Dnt regret ur past experiences or even so walk away from some1 u question bc the reality is...ur learning! It's all a learning process that has a major pay off in the end!

U gain a friend, a person who loves u flaws and all, some1 who sees the good in u even when u dnt c it urself, a person who will LOVE u, a person who gives u the courage, strength, and confidence 2 want 2 give ur all in every situation. U gain REAL LOVE!

All in all, there is only 1 kind of LOVE.... There is not a in love, and in like and just love. Theres simply NOT. Everything other than love is called GROWTH! Seriously. Ur past is something u should appreciate but it shouldnt be something u have 2 make urself believe or others @ that! When something is real... U will kno and although others may doubt how u feel they know it 2!
The sweetest joy is waking up every morning as well as going 2 sleep every nite knowing that someone LOVES U..IN AND OUT! IN AND OUT!!!!
BUT dnt b fooled... REAL LOVE can b u just finally loving urself unconditionally. U finally appreciating urself and learning as well as valuing ur self worth!
REAL LOVE can b something u share w/ur child....REAL LOVE can b anything thats true 2 u and ur heart! anything that gives u joy above and beyond anything!
Dnt search... jus wait! God has an awesome plan 4 all of us...and Im sure REAL LOVE is wrapped up in there somewhere 2!!

Love Life Forever
1THALE