Sex...Unspoken Truth

I often wonder why is "sex"... being physical...and intercourse such a touchy subject to discuss within groups when it's something that is commonly done daily...

Is it because people are ashamed?? maybe because of all the stereotypes that exist..
Or are people just afraid to hear the truth about what people really think about sex??

hmmm?? I really do wonder this!

Should sex be discussed more openly and freely?? Do you think people will ever stop judging people for doing what THEY WANT TO DO?? I'm guessing, NO, but it never hurts to wonder.

How do women view sex?? How do men view sex??

oddly I think it's much of the same! Especially after the conversation my friends and I engaged in last night!

Does size matter??... is just like asking a man does big breast and butt matter??

Size is very tricky... you(a man) can have thee smallest penis BUT if you know how to work with what you have... ur size somehow just doesnt matter anymore. But how do you know you are really "working what you have" and not just really having a woman fake everything that's coming out of her mouth...
it's not all about the words you may have her screaming and yelling... it's more about the body language... the moans, the licks, the kisses, and the hand movements.

I won't tell our "faking it" tricks... but I will tell you this PAY close ATTENTION to body language!
Back 2 size... woman often wonder y some of the most confident guys are the ones w/the smaller penis BUT dnt even know where it is goes...lol! seriously... do guys know that they are small?? Because woman know that they don't have larger breast or a big butt. So how is that a man doesnt know what he has... or should have?

BUT let us NOT 4get about the guys who are "packing" ---- five dollar, five dollar footlonnnnggg(an actual quote from last night)
Some of those guys need as much training as a one yr being potty trained.
WHAT IS THE PROBLEM??

Another point about size.... and yet another question that most women want an answer to... why do men get undressed in the dark? is it because it just how it always seems to happens... or u dnt want to be seen while ur not fully "excited"? What is it?? Just like men want to see women get undressed.. we sometimes like to see you get undressed as well... That may be...considering who you are and what you have..all the 4play we need!

Sex is not one of those things that get better w/experience... for some people. Because if you do the samething everytime you have sex..and u r quite experienced then there is a problem. And this is more common w/females than males. Sorry ladies! Women can be very experienced...with multiple guys but when the lights are off they perform the same way. I don't understand. Show some creativity... figure out what you like and don't like.. and aim for pleasing yourself 1st than man last!

Another common thing that is never talked about is... sex with another race... Specifically sex with a white male.... how do black women feel about that.
2 out of 5 women think black women NEED 2 try sex with a white male because they will be more satisfied than ever before!
hmmm that is interesting. Knowing that...does that make you look @ every white guy and wonder what he "has" or what he could do for you?? lol!


LAST BUT NOT LEAST.... ejaculation...cum... whatever you want to call it. How women really feel about this and how we think men feel

3 out of 5 women would prefer a man to cum anywhere but inside of them when engaging in casual sex... whereas 2 out of 5 feel the sameway even while in a long term relationship.

Men when you ask a girl "where do you want me to cum" and she says inside of me... how does that make you feel?? both during casual sex as well as sex with your significant other??

Some women thinks it makes you feel special..."this is mine"... well imagine if she told every guy that... lol!! do you really feel special NOW walking into that clinic??? I bet not.

What is wrong with condoms?? Y don't people use them... especially people in relationships??
Okay yes there are things out there like PLAN B, BIRTH CONTROL, ABORTION... BUT there are also other things that exist that many people dont even know they have...
Sooo although condoms are not the best sometimes... just think of other ways to make them more exciting... have fun with them. Seriously!

QUOTE OF THE NIGHT: "Im not about to eat me out and suck your dick to"... Some women really don't like when you go downtown and come back trying to kiss...

Sooo with that being said.. whether it's casual sex or sex with a partner... COMMUNICATION is key! I know that may sound wack and sometimes just doesnt fit the situation but seriously you will be amazed @ how much better ur sex life would be if you just communicate and ask questions. Talk about the things you like and dont like... talk about what you want and your fantasies... talk about the use of condoms and how you feel about them... and dont be afraid to ask personal questions about health and doctor visits!...because the reality is sex is personal and if your able to engage in that.. you should be able to do it correctly!!!


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